oh ita but i don't mean anyone expects rainbows and sunshine even- just that when there's names attached u at least have the option of avoiding them and thus avoiding pointless fighting/wank. that's how i deal with assholes on other sites.
maybe it's bc im more of a lurker but i find it so easy not to engage in it, like all of the wank is old and tired after being in this fandom for four years that im all argued out about it
a lot of the anons here seem pretty lame when it comes to arguing/trolling anyway
the other problem is that everyone wants to be seen as totally jaded and always totally up on every aspect of fandom, including what other people no longer even in the fandom are up to, like... wat. like, i was barely in fandom at all in late 2012 bc of rl issues, if i wanna talk abt sth i will and if someone else wants to join in the talk they will, what's it to the rest of u.
tiny example- i don't keep up with tumblr drama or kpsm2, and sometimes other anons rly bring in their issues with previous tumblr or kpsm2 threads and the whole 'so-and-so stans are the worst' thing, and it's just
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